Very well put Jarsh, now I will apply the opposite viewpoint, just so both sides are represented.
1) There are now tons of internet message boards (like this one!) which will let you join without ever paying a dime. There are usually some pretty good folks on there. I have made some of my best friends in life through some internet message boards, and we plan trips together and hit other parks all the time.
2) ACE DOES have a ton of events, but how many are you realistically going to go to in a year? Outside of the C3's at Carowinds I think I've only been to one other "ACE" sanctioned event, which was at Dollywood. A lot of events are park sponsored and you can get in with any coaster club membership, or sometimes like Coaster Stock, you don't need one at all.
3) ACE's publications ARE top notch, if you want news from 3-6 months ago that you read on the internet already. I enjoyed reading the newsletters and RollerCoaster magazine during my brief time in ACE, but by the time I got them it was like looking into the past.
I appreciate everything ACE does to help preserve coaster knowledge and history, and promote enthusiasm, but there are so many options now that ACE (for me) is useless.
-Jay (Who's now going to go register for C3, since I just spent the last 10 minutes bashing ACE

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